there are many different ways to live life, none are perfect and all have their tradeoffs. e.g. you can get a dog, but that means you have to look after them which may mean less travel or awkward care arrangments. but without a dog you miss out on their cute lovliness. You could also be someone that drinks a lot, you may have a lot of fun, but youll pay with your health later on. somthing ike that, yin yang bs. idk.